How I Caught My Cheater

There’s nothing worse than that feeling in your gut when you know that something is very wrong with your marriage.  At first, you can’t quite put your finger on it. But then, the actions begin to jive with the feelings.  He begins spending less time at home.  He has weird excuses that just don’t ring true.  You can feel the difference when he touches you.  You just know that something is “off.”

This was the case with me.  I had strong suspicions that something very wrong was going on.  Sure, he had a demanding job, but never before had it affected his interest toward me.  Sometimes, I would tell myself that I was just being paranoid and sometimes, I was absolutely sure.

But, I decided that I had to learn the truth because we had been talking about having children.  I didn’t want to move forward with this if I couldn’t trust him.  And, for my own mental health, I needed to know once and for all if the little voice screaming in the back of my head was right. So, I decided to confront him.  Scroll down to see what happened next.  And, if you don’t want to read the whole story, you can skip forward to see what might be some useful tools.

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