How I Caught My Cheater

So in order to determine if I was right or wrong, I decided to take matters in my own hands. The first place that I chose to look was my husband’s email on our computer.  Now, I knew the email that he used for work and friends and of course, I checked that, but no dice. I suspected that he opened another account just for the other person, but I couldn’t access it or find it. I went to our computer’s Internet history, but it had been deleted.  So, I was at a dead end there - or so I thought.

But, then I found something that helped me to retrieve emails, passwords, and internet history - and bingo - I found a whole seperate internet world that he’d been using.

There were two systems, really. The first is called How To Catch A Cheating Spouse by Sarah Paul. 

It helped me to spy on him from the computer, on his cell phone, in an airplane or on a business trip.   It teaches you how to retrieve text messages and emails, how to get DNA evidence of an affair, and how to cover your tracks if you are wrong. 

And, she (Sarah) offers a FREE newsletter that gives you the common signs, signals, and mistakes that cheating spouses give up.  Once you visit her web page, you can scroll down to the end and sign up for her free newsletter by clicking here. This is a good (and free) place to start.

Another really good resource if you have some cell phone numbers that you’re too scared to call but really need to know who this person is - Reverse Phone Lookup.  Cell phone numbers aren’t public.  Although you can get info about them (where they are located) you can’t get the actual name through public records.  But, you can with this system.  You can plug in the phone number to see if it’s available here.  I had to use this because my husband’s cell phone had a lot of unfamiliar numbers.  I was pretty sure that most of them (but not all) were for business. I did not want to go calling clients if I was wrong.

The final resource that I found is Cheat Sweeper. This one is really geared toward folks that want to use verbal methods rather than technology to catch the cheating. In essence, the idea is to trick or talk him into confessing himself and having remorse. This guy offers a free newsletter too.  You can check it out here.  You can read about my final results by clicking here or scrolling down. (affiliate disclosure)

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